Tokyo, August 31, 2025 – A 22-year-old woman, Arisa Kato, has been arrested in Japan for allegedly defrauding several men out of nearly ¥8 million (approximately HK$50,800) through a dating app by fabricating emotional stories to gain their sympathy and money.
Authorities say Kato deceived her victims—mostly older men—by claiming she needed funds to repay family debts, cover her mother’s cancer treatment, or support a sister after a suicide attempt. In one case, a 67-year-old victim reported transferring a total of ¥8 million to Kato, though the official charge involves a smaller amount of ¥2 million (around HK$12,700).
🎭 Filtered Identity, Real Damage
Kato’s case gained viral attention on social media after her actual appearance—which greatly differed from her heavily filtered profile photos—was revealed. Many online commenters criticized her for exploiting her victims’ loneliness and trust.
Other victims, including men in their 30s and 40s, said Kato asked for more modest sums, supposedly to help with hospital bills or family debts. She manipulated them by appearing hesitant to accept help and even provided personal-looking details, such as a photo of her university ID, to build trust.
But once she received the money, communication decreased. Kato blamed work and health issues for her unavailability. When victims asked for repayment, she claimed the money was part of their romantic relationship—not a loan.
📄 No Paper Trail, No Justice
Initially, police were unable to act due to the lack of written agreements, telling victims their cases would be difficult to pursue legally. However, once Kato’s arrest made headlines, more victims stepped forward, encouraged by public awareness of the scam.
Some victims admitted they were skeptical of her looks upon meeting her in person, but felt flattered that a younger woman had shown interest in them.
🚨 Wider Impact
The case has ignited conversations online about the risks of online dating, especially for older individuals seeking companionship. Many pointed to how Kato exploited emotional vulnerability while hiding behind a digital mask.
Police have not ruled out the possibility of additional victims and are continuing the investigation.
